Tuesday 8 March 2011

A Love Cupid?

I gotta admit, lots of people have been breaking-up lately.
I'm wondering whether its due to the high sensitivity of a 'recently broke up' girl, my instict is kinda accurate.

This is the time where you'll discover the power of Facebook again.
10 years ago, we just entered into the world of ICQ, emails etc etc.
Ways of spreading love is kinda rigid at that time.
10 years later, we have Facebook.
Dreams of girls? Nightmares of guys?

If you're having a FB account, you'll notice lots of girls LOVE to share some articles, love story, video... anything related to 'I hope my boyfriend know this'. And what's more?
They get to express some words that is difficult to say directly in real life. So this is where others' writings came into effect.
What will the boyfriends do? Read it. Understood it. 'Oh, so this is what girls want.'
They'll probably execute it for a short period. After that period? Share another story, and repeat it again.
Happy ending.
This is how couples nowdays enjoy the extra flirting and communication, using the technological-driven instrument.

What about those couples that don't have FB, or maybe one of them don't?
This is normally referring to guys, as I don't see girls will missed this platform of getting some fun.
So, no shared videos, no shared stories, no discussion.

But imagine this, girl A read something, somehow someway that thing touched her heart.
Boyfriend B don't see it. So tada! Arguements came in.
Guys will normally just give the 'all right, girls' thing again' expression.
Girls will scream aloud, 'are you thinking that I'm being unreasonable again?'

Typical case.

I'm not saying this is the factor that lead to breaking ups.

But its power in helping communication (if both utilised it in a good way), or rather, worsening relationship, is worth a thought.

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