All right, I know this shouldn't be happening on a young adult girl.
The total of my phone bill is less than RM3 for half a month?!
This is certainly the lowest rate I achieved in my whole life ever since I got my first cell at the age of 13.
As I'm using a postpaid plan, which made me pay a minimum of thirty even though I'm not anywhere near this amount, this is a bad bad bad news.
Sad-nya.... anyone out there, do feel free to ask me to call/sms you to pass time.
Feel free to waste my bill money (._.)
Tuesday 29 March 2011
Friday 18 March 2011
Up! uP! UP!
The 3rd International Hot Air Balloon Fiesta in Malaysia, Putrajaya
Up in the air!
Pilot from Japan
Managed to get there early enough to snap the way they set up the balloons, up-close!
Isn't this beautiful?
We spent RM10 to sit on a tethered one!
Models of the Day ^^
Wednesday 16 March 2011
Saturday 12 March 2011
少了观众的摄影师
最近拍的照片里，好像少了些什么。
色彩吗？笑容吗？
好像没有了灵魂，没有了故事。
怎么看都不满意。
纳闷了很久。。。
（翻过旧相簿，算算日子，二十分钟后。。。）
哦
原来，是少了观众。
少了分享的对象，就不知道故事该怎么拍了。
不知道要为谁而按下快门了。
原来，观众很重要。
就好像，对导演来说，观众很重要。
一部电影，是从观众的角度看待`感受，从而理解。
完美呈现，希望得到观众的掌声。
没有观众的导演，就无法对电影注入灵魂了。
这对摄影师来说，是一样的道理。
色彩吗？笑容吗？
好像没有了灵魂，没有了故事。
怎么看都不满意。
纳闷了很久。。。
（翻过旧相簿，算算日子，二十分钟后。。。）
哦
原来，是少了观众。
少了分享的对象，就不知道故事该怎么拍了。
不知道要为谁而按下快门了。
原来，观众很重要。
就好像，对导演来说，观众很重要。
一部电影，是从观众的角度看待`感受，从而理解。
完美呈现，希望得到观众的掌声。
没有观众的导演，就无法对电影注入灵魂了。
这对摄影师来说，是一样的道理。
Everyone went, so did We
Yup, we went to the Jogoya Japanese Buffet Restaurant for the Buy 1 Free 1 Promotion.
As an Economist Student, we normally wouldn't missed this kind of 'economic' thingy. lol
The must-try-food, Haagen-Dazs Green Tea Ice Cream & Coconut
We sat between 'Believe' & 'Power'
Salmon Sashimi!!!!
Coming to think about it, it seems that I only lay my hands on the Sashimi & Ice Cream.
Oh ya, did I mention there were FORTY SIX of us?
The total bill amount was RM 2260.44
^o^
Tuesday 8 March 2011
A Lesson Learnt
Its the International Women's Day.
Literally, it is meant to encourage women to be strong.
Yet, I discovered a shocking news today that would nearly destroy me and ruin my future.
Since its the day that meant for women to be strong, I would share my story here.
To mark as a lesson for myself, and a gentle reminder for others.
I was cheated by my ex-boyfriend all these while.
He has another girlfriend besides me being the one.
But this isn't the reason that we broke up.
I only discovered this afterwards.
Things hasn't been going quite well before the relationship end.
I sense something, but wasn't exactly quite sure what it is.
I thought he is just a little bit of uncaring, a little bit of careless and kinda busy.
There were a few times where I found the evidences.
Yes, evidenceS.
Well, I didn't take it as an evidence of cheating at that point of time.
The biggest mistake I've done is to trust him too much, to the extent of finding excuses for him when I found those evidences.
I even thought of a acceptable reason for him to acknowledge when I was confronting him.
He just has no reason to cheat on me, he's the loyalty kind, I thought.
But what's more, it is not the kind of story where we live happily and another girl came in.
It is a story of me being the third party. In the context of a traditional chinese couple family, I was the mistress that were kept nicely and secretly without the knowing of the wife.
And of course, without the knowing of the mistress too.
There were signals here and there, there were friends' kind reminders, there were families' warnings.
I was just too deep into it.
Coming to think of it, it all make sense now.
The small number of talks and communication, the refusal of him taking photo using his handphone, the intimate addressing of a unknown phone number as 'babe'.
But I just believe in all of his explainations in every single little thing.
I thought I was rasional that time, I though I was smart enough to differentiate lies and truth.
Eventually, it is never about rasionality or intelligence.
When someone has the intention to cheat, he'll just do everything that make sure you believe.
You'll never have a clear mind until the day he left your life.
So, widen up your eyes everyone. Not just girls, for guys too.
No gender differentiate in this.
What's more important, is to have the courage to walk out from the mess afterhand.
Its too silly to allow this kind of person to destroy your life.
Easier said than done.
I'm struggling to pull myself up too.
I have a thesis to complete in one month's time.
I've been 'grieving' for quite some time and now I'm taking the risk of not graduating in time because of all these mess.
Don't allow others to take advantage of your kindness.
When someone told you that you're considerate, you are.
When someone told you that you're reasonable, you are.
But don't ever let him use these characteristics to take control of you.
Sometimes, its good to bear the pain and let go.
Sometimes, its good to trust your own instinct for a while.
Like what I said, I sense something, but I wasn't quite sure what it is.
I just know this is not the relationship that I want. That's intinct.
It isn't telling me directly that he's cheating, but it do serve as a warning.
Then, I found out all the scandals after I walked away.
My instict is proven.
Literally, it is meant to encourage women to be strong.
Yet, I discovered a shocking news today that would nearly destroy me and ruin my future.
Since its the day that meant for women to be strong, I would share my story here.
To mark as a lesson for myself, and a gentle reminder for others.
I was cheated by my ex-boyfriend all these while.
He has another girlfriend besides me being the one.
But this isn't the reason that we broke up.
I only discovered this afterwards.
Things hasn't been going quite well before the relationship end.
I sense something, but wasn't exactly quite sure what it is.
I thought he is just a little bit of uncaring, a little bit of careless and kinda busy.
There were a few times where I found the evidences.
Yes, evidenceS.
Well, I didn't take it as an evidence of cheating at that point of time.
The biggest mistake I've done is to trust him too much, to the extent of finding excuses for him when I found those evidences.
I even thought of a acceptable reason for him to acknowledge when I was confronting him.
He just has no reason to cheat on me, he's the loyalty kind, I thought.
But what's more, it is not the kind of story where we live happily and another girl came in.
It is a story of me being the third party. In the context of a traditional chinese couple family, I was the mistress that were kept nicely and secretly without the knowing of the wife.
And of course, without the knowing of the mistress too.
There were signals here and there, there were friends' kind reminders, there were families' warnings.
I was just too deep into it.
Coming to think of it, it all make sense now.
The small number of talks and communication, the refusal of him taking photo using his handphone, the intimate addressing of a unknown phone number as 'babe'.
But I just believe in all of his explainations in every single little thing.
I thought I was rasional that time, I though I was smart enough to differentiate lies and truth.
Eventually, it is never about rasionality or intelligence.
When someone has the intention to cheat, he'll just do everything that make sure you believe.
You'll never have a clear mind until the day he left your life.
So, widen up your eyes everyone. Not just girls, for guys too.
No gender differentiate in this.
What's more important, is to have the courage to walk out from the mess afterhand.
Its too silly to allow this kind of person to destroy your life.
Easier said than done.
I'm struggling to pull myself up too.
I have a thesis to complete in one month's time.
I've been 'grieving' for quite some time and now I'm taking the risk of not graduating in time because of all these mess.
Don't allow others to take advantage of your kindness.
When someone told you that you're considerate, you are.
When someone told you that you're reasonable, you are.
But don't ever let him use these characteristics to take control of you.
Sometimes, its good to bear the pain and let go.
Sometimes, its good to trust your own instinct for a while.
Like what I said, I sense something, but I wasn't quite sure what it is.
I just know this is not the relationship that I want. That's intinct.
It isn't telling me directly that he's cheating, but it do serve as a warning.
Then, I found out all the scandals after I walked away.
My instict is proven.
A Love Cupid?
I gotta admit, lots of people have been breaking-up lately.
I'm wondering whether its due to the high sensitivity of a 'recently broke up' girl, my instict is kinda accurate.
This is the time where you'll discover the power of Facebook again.
10 years ago, we just entered into the world of ICQ, emails etc etc.
Ways of spreading love is kinda rigid at that time.
10 years later, we have Facebook.
Dreams of girls? Nightmares of guys?
If you're having a FB account, you'll notice lots of girls LOVE to share some articles, love story, video... anything related to 'I hope my boyfriend know this'. And what's more?
They get to express some words that is difficult to say directly in real life. So this is where others' writings came into effect.
What will the boyfriends do? Read it. Understood it. 'Oh, so this is what girls want.'
They'll probably execute it for a short period. After that period? Share another story, and repeat it again.
Happy ending.
This is how couples nowdays enjoy the extra flirting and communication, using the technological-driven instrument.
What about those couples that don't have FB, or maybe one of them don't?
This is normally referring to guys, as I don't see girls will missed this platform of getting some fun.
So, no shared videos, no shared stories, no discussion.
But imagine this, girl A read something, somehow someway that thing touched her heart.
Boyfriend B don't see it. So tada! Arguements came in.
Guys will normally just give the 'all right, girls' thing again' expression.
Girls will scream aloud, 'are you thinking that I'm being unreasonable again?'
Typical case.
I'm not saying this is the factor that lead to breaking ups.
But its power in helping communication (if both utilised it in a good way), or rather, worsening relationship, is worth a thought.
I'm wondering whether its due to the high sensitivity of a 'recently broke up' girl, my instict is kinda accurate.
This is the time where you'll discover the power of Facebook again.
10 years ago, we just entered into the world of ICQ, emails etc etc.
Ways of spreading love is kinda rigid at that time.
10 years later, we have Facebook.
Dreams of girls? Nightmares of guys?
If you're having a FB account, you'll notice lots of girls LOVE to share some articles, love story, video... anything related to 'I hope my boyfriend know this'. And what's more?
They get to express some words that is difficult to say directly in real life. So this is where others' writings came into effect.
What will the boyfriends do? Read it. Understood it. 'Oh, so this is what girls want.'
They'll probably execute it for a short period. After that period? Share another story, and repeat it again.
Happy ending.
This is how couples nowdays enjoy the extra flirting and communication, using the technological-driven instrument.
What about those couples that don't have FB, or maybe one of them don't?
This is normally referring to guys, as I don't see girls will missed this platform of getting some fun.
So, no shared videos, no shared stories, no discussion.
But imagine this, girl A read something, somehow someway that thing touched her heart.
Boyfriend B don't see it. So tada! Arguements came in.
Guys will normally just give the 'all right, girls' thing again' expression.
Girls will scream aloud, 'are you thinking that I'm being unreasonable again?'
Typical case.
I'm not saying this is the factor that lead to breaking ups.
But its power in helping communication (if both utilised it in a good way), or rather, worsening relationship, is worth a thought.
Monday 7 March 2011
她。和他
他的心有一道墙 但她发现一扇窗
偶尔透出一丝暖暖的微光
她太笨 明知道他是错的人
但是她还奋不顾身
情人总分分合合 可是他们却越爱越深
认识他 让她的幸福如此悦耳
能不能给她一首歌的时间
把故事听到最后才说再见
只是想让她知道 只是想让他知道
爱的警告
如果能重来 诚实的去对待
彼此都没疑猜 就没有理由分开
他做了选择 对的错的
她只能承认 心是痛的
这段属于黑夜的爱情 注定要蒸发阳光底
两个世界的代表作品就是命运
只能说她输了 也许是他怕了
他们的回忆 没有皱褶
他们变成了世上 最熟悉的陌生人
离开他 她才找回自己 那爱笑的眼睛
再见到他 她一定让自己 假装很坚定
爱情走得太快 就像龙卷风
她不能再想 她不要再想他
Friday 4 March 2011
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